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Sunday, February 7, 2021

In the Kitchen with My Daughter - day 7 of the UBC Challenge

Today is Superbowl Sunday 2021. In days past, it was an opportunity for friends and families to have a get together for food, drink, and socialization. 

This year, things are on the low down because of COVID restrictions and protests across our land with people taking a knee when the National Anthem is sung. In fact, many followers of professional sports have now turned off their televisions, quit supporting the athletes, and could care less if the tv is on or not at the same time, many people still enjoy the events, place their bets, have family, and friend get-togethers, and partake in good food and drink. 

Today's post isn't about my views one way or the other where sports and people are concerned. I am married to a person who breathes sports, all of them. In fact, it sounds like he is watching basketball now as I write my post! He has his own opinions and we just leave it at that.  Since COVID hit, we don't watch many sports like we did in the past. Some just don't interest us anymore and that's okay with me (giggling out loud). 

Nonetheless, we are going to have my youngest daughter and her small family (husband and their soon-to-be one-year-old) over to watch the BIG game. It's not a rare event that they come over as they frequent our house regularly. We partake in meals with one another and play family games. Today will be no different. 

The only difference is, we aren't doing the traditional Superbowl party type foods. For Christmas, we had an Italian themed meal. I made two Lasagnas from scratch.



One we ate the day of, and the other I put in the freezer. Today, we are going to break that extra one out and pop it in the oven for the big game. We will add a Caesar Salad, Calamari, Jalapeno Poppers, French Bread, and Bagna to our spread. 

How many of you have ever eaten Bagna? I hadn't until I married my current husband in 2000. Later this month, we will be celebrating 21 years. 

When he would tell me about Bagna, he would say, "people will know we have eaten Bagna because it will come out of your pores for days". I asked why and his reply was, "the amount of garlic and anchovies used". I don't have a problem with the garlic at all. I love garlic. I cook with it regularly. The anchovies I had to get used to and even now - - still takes me back a bit...but they dissolve and it's ok. 

When we take a trip up to Illinois where my husband is from, there is always a family party in his honor. They celebrate his return even if it's for a few days. It's a given there will always be a crockpot or two of Bagna. Alongside of the crockpots are loaves of bread, French bread, and assorted vegetables. That's what people use when they are eating Bagna. 

It isn't a thick consistency. It is more of a liquid and I normally just dip my bread in it. I suppose if you wanted to make it thicker, you could. But I mostly just follow the recipe without deviation. 

My daughter and her family were over a few days earlier this last week. I made a batch of Bagna. (it freezes well too, so any that's left can always be kept in the freezer for a few months). As I was working on gathering the items needed to begin the long-drawn-out process of cooking the Bagna, my daughter walked into the kitchen. 



This dip needs to be cooked slow and steady for a few hours. The longer it is cooked, the better it is...stir, stir, stir. Have the heat turned down and stir, stir, stir. Low and slow...

I was in the process of peeling heads of garlic...you can see them in the photo. I have used jarred garlic before, but it isn't the same. I prefer the real thing! 

I grabbed my cast iron skillet and began melting the butter on low heat. 

 

Once the garlic and the butter were completely dissolved together, it begins to stick to the sides and the bottom. (Be sure to scrape the bottom and the sides throughout the process). Sir, stir, stir...low and slow. One must have the patience to make Bagna. 



At this time, my daughter stepped up and said, "I'll take over mom". I stressed to her not to slosh the liquid and stir it slow and steady.... constantly stir it. Scrape the sides and cook it slowly. Don't slosh!!! 

The garlic is dissolved, now we will add the anchovies. (sometimes, I will substitute them with sardines). My daughter isn't keen on either one...so I don't use as many as I normally would. Stir them into the butter and garlic mixture until they also dissolve. Slow and steady, continually scraping the sides, the bottom, and the sides again. Slow and steady...patience. 



Once the anchovies were dissolved, we added Half and Half and the heavy cream. Stirring, stirring, stirring, scrape, scrape, scrape.  Don't slosh!!! 




We, or should I say, SHE stirred the Bagna while cooking it for about 2 hours or so. She would make these comments that she didn't see the need to cook this that long and why does it need to be on low? I stressed to her again, the longer it cooks, the better it is...low and slow. 

She continued to stir...and she stirred...and she stirred. It's finally finished, we cut up a loaf of French bread and dove in. YUM, YUM, YUM!!! (the rest went into the freezer for Superbowl Sunday). I guess I better go take it out of the freezer. I'll throw it in the crockpot this afternoon. 

 

BAGNA RECIPE 

3 sticks of butter 

1 pound of chopped garlic 

(about 6 heads - use every clove) 

3 cans of Anchovies

 (can substitute Sardines) 

1 pt. Whipping Cream 

1 pt. Half and Half 

In a cast-iron skillet, melt the butter one stick at a time on medium to low until all three sticks are melted.  

Add the chopped garlic. Stir constantly, scraping the bottom and the sides until all the garlic has dissolved into the butter. (The garlic will begin to stick). At this time, you can add more butter if needed.  

Add the Anchovies/Sardines, stirring until they dissolve. Still on low-medium heat...scraping the sides and the bottom.  

Next, stir in the Half and Half and the Whipping Cream. Stirring constantly and slowly. Scraping, the sides and the bottom. A crust will begin to make. When this happens, you know your Bagna is done.  

Serve Bagna with toasted French bread, loaves of white bread, celery, cabbage, broccoli, and other vegetables you like.  

If you are having a party such as Superbowl or anything else, you can make this on top of the stove, then transfer it to a crockpot to keep it warm. Turn it on the low or warm setting, stirring it from time to time.  

Eat and enjoy...what's left can be thrown in a bowl and frozen until a later time. 


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Thursday, January 7, 2021

Throwback Thursday - Memories of Yesterday

Today is Throwback Thursday (TT). This happens every week. I have been pondering what picture I wanted to share this week for TT and this is what I came up with. 

                                                           Me, 2 days old - Grandma and Nonnie




                                      My grandson, Noah. He is the oldest of my three grandchildren.
                                        (these 3 photos. Hannah, my youngest is holding him in the center photo)




                                          My 2nd grandson, Isaiah. He is Noah's brother. (these 3 photos)
                              (I DON't see either one of these boys any longer because of choices made by their father). 
                                          



                                    My third grandson, Caiden. He is my youngest daughter's rainbow baby. 
                                                                                         A true Miracle.
                                                                    He is their pride and joy. (the last three photos)

ALL three of these young boys ARE Nonnie's pride and joy and will be until I take my last breath. I am NOT okay with choices made by others as those choices have left a huge, irreplaceable hole in my heart. 

I am truly thankful on a daily basis for the time I get to spend with Caiden, my youngest of three grandchildren. I do NOT take any of this for granted and pray that he will never be stripped away from my life as the other two were because of choices. 

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Wednesday, January 6, 2021

365PhotoadayChallenge - Day 6

The challenge is to post at least one photograph per day for the year. Here's mine today. 



I have been tracing my 10-month-old grandson's hands with mine since we brought him home from the hospital. My hope is to add them to his journal of memories I am creating for him in hopes he will cherish them for a lifetime and possibly pass them down to his family in my memory. 

Yes, the drawing might be a little rough around the edges, but it is becoming easier and easier to trace his little hands. With this one, he sat there and was intrigued by what I was doing. I love my grandson very much!! <#

Have a wonderful day! 


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Friday, January 1, 2021

Goodbye Twenty-Twenty, Hello Twenty-Twenty-One/TTOT

Twenty-Twenty is in the books...hello twenty-twenty-one! Ten Things of Thankful has continued to be uplifting and a warm welcome each week when I see the posts. I read most of them and comment on a few from time to time. For the last several months, I did not share any posts myself as I was covered up with Christmas crafting projects since the middle of September. Here are the covers of some of the Projects I worked on since September 2020. 










As you see, I was busy - busy making journals. I am thankful I was able to get back into my craft room and create from my heart beautiful gifts for others. I find so much joy in crafting...it is my respite. 

I had many things I was thankful for in twenty-twenty. Number 10, which probably should be my number 1 every time is LIFE. Many times, people take life for granted. I do not...God has blessed me with breath daily and for that, I am very thankful. I should be dead ten times over from this health issue or that health issue or this traumatic event or that traumatic event...but I am not. I am VERY much alive! 



For Number 9, I am thankful that none of my immediate family (apart from myself) had COVID. Although I have many cousins and other extended friends and family who lost loved ones to the horrific illness. I am sorry for your loss if it affected your loved ones...know you are in my thoughts and prayers. On a side note, my sister texted me earlier this evening to tell me she was headed to Urgent Care. She tested positive for COVID. Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers...

Number 8, I am thankful for a roof over my head and food on the table. So far, my husband has been able to work each day since COVID hit. For that, I am thankful...this is his work truck. It is called a Volumetric Cement truck. What that means is, he mixes on site instead of having the tumbler like most other cement trucks. He has worked with H & H Concrete on Demand for a total of 9 years. He had this job before we moved relocated to the Round Rock, Texas area in 2013 for my job. When we had the opportunity to move back to the Dallas/Fort Worth area at the end of 2015, he went back to this employer. (I suppose he likes working here!) LOL



I truly am thankful for so many things in life. Breath, friends, and family to mention a few. Over the last several years, I have had the opportunity of meeting new family members because of "walking with the ancestors" through genealogy. Twenty-twenty was no different. My Number 7 expresses gratitude for meeting new cousins and friends along the way. Our very own Dyanne Vinyard Dillon, host of Ten Things of Thankful fell into this number 7 thankfulness. I had the opportunity of meeting her in person during October on our way to Illinois. Although our time was short...it was amazing finally getting to meet this beautiful lady. Thank you again, Dyanne, for driving over to meet up with us in Springfield, MO. Until we meet again...




For many people, family is everything...I must say, there are times I do not share this same sentiment with folks. My family has been my nemesis and thorn in my side for most of my life. Do not get me wrong, I love my family very much. But wait...there is a BUT! My family has hurt me, stabbed me in the back, walked out of my life, said hurtful, mean words to me, and has shattered my heart through and through. 

I know through the years, I caused hurt and said hurtful things, but I always asked for forgiveness once tempers settled down. With forgiveness, comes remorse...I wish I could say - I have felt the same from my family. But that has not been the case...Number 6 for me through twenty-twenty-one is, I want a change of heart where all my family is concerned. Although I have forgiven those who have hurt me in the past...I want to be able to move past the heartache that I feel daily because of the loss of so many people who still live and breathe today. I do not dwell on the pain anymore, thank goodness! I have learned to accept that we all make choices, and we are all at the age to be responsible for them. I have laid all this pain at the foot of the Cross and pray one day there will be amends before it is too late. I am thankful that Jesus Christ gives us all second chances and never holds anything over our heads. I just wished human beings were somewhat the same...tsk, tsk, tsk. Nonetheless, I am thankful for family...

I am thankful for Number 5 which is Jesus Christ being my personal Savior. Honestly, this is my number 1 - 10 and then some...without Him, I would be lost. I am thankful for His forgiveness and His love. 

Number 4, I am thankful for each one of YOU!  

My Number 3 spot is music. I am thankful for the sound of music in my life. I enjoy watching my grandson, Caiden who is 10 months old when music comes on. He moves his little body, waves his hands in the air and he and I share a few favorite tunes from one of his toys. I must say, he and Nonnie like to dance...I hope as he grows older, that maybe he will want to play a musical instrument of some kind. It would make my heart jump up and down with joy if that instrument was a violin. I was an accomplished violinist back in the day. My mom and dad always wanted me to play for them anytime we went to Amarillo for a visit... The first picture here was from a wedding I played at during my Freshman year in High School. The second photo was taken in 2000 when we had travelled from Illinois to Amarillo to spend Thanksgiving with my parents. (They and my niece are pictured in the photo). 




I am thankful for having the opportunity of being a part of this wonderful group of people in Ten Things of Thankful. That is my Number 2

NUMBER 1, I am very thankful for my three grandsons. My oldest one turned 16 on December 27th. I have not seen him in almost two years. His name is Noah. Then there is Isaiah...he turned 7 in September and I have not seen him since his first birthday. Caiden is my youngest grandson. He is 10 months old...I am thankful to have him in my life. I call him 'my handsome'. Regardless of the choices and the curveballs life has thrown our way, I love all three of my grandsons very much! I smile and my heart flutters everytime I see a photo of each.  

Here we are...January 1st...I bid you farewell twenty-twenty, hello twenty-twenty-one...I hope and pray twenty-twenty-one turns out better than the last twelve months. Can I get a second?  

Until next time...thank you for reading and I look forward to reading your comments. 



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Sunday, October 11, 2020

Our Journey, Day 1 - 2020 Vacation - #9UBC

 Day 9 in the Ultimate Blog Challenge

DAY 1



On Friday, we began our journey to Illinois. I wrote a post a few days ago titled, "should I stay, or should I go" as a segue into the next few days...did you read it? If you did, thank you! I appreciate your comments and thoughts...

The journey if we travel it straight through is a little under fourteen hours. This time, on the way there - we are breaking it out into 4 - 4.5 hours stretches as we are meeting cousins of mine that I haven't seen in many, many years and also having the opportunity of meeting several other 'new' cousins I have met through my genealogy journey and also from blogging. 

We left the Dallas/Ft Worth area about 4:15 p.m. after my husband got off and began making our trek towards Oklahoma. Our first stop for the night. 

We saw many sights along the way...things such as more concrete being erected and more construction along the highways and byways. We decided, or should I say, "I decided" we would take a different route than we normally do when taking a trip up North. This was two-fold - we were going to be stopping in Heavener, OK to see my 1st cousin who I grew up knowing, but over the years have not seen her in many, many years. I mapped out different routes for the second leg of the journey but wanted to do a few specific things on the route I knew...

When we were still on the Texas side, I saw a sign that said, Eisenhower State Park. I will need to make a trip back to visit this monument. 

As we made our way closer and closer to the state lines, we crossed the Red River. Yes, there was water in it...many times, portions of it are dry. As we continued driving, my husband's eyes are gazed out at the timber we are passing in hopes of seeing the deer. I must admit, I too, look for them when we travel. 

Welcome to Oklahoma!!! It was just passed the Red River on our way out of Texas. In my genealogy journey, I have many ancestors who lived along and near the Red River areas. I have Native American ancestors who I have heard many, many stories in days past that have roots in these areas, too. Oklahoma is rich with history and stories. As with many other areas in the great U.S.A., there are beautiful areas of the state and then some not so many areas. We are in a beautiful part of the state. There are hills and lakes, streams, and lots of timber. 

Along this same area of the highway, there was an old Trestle bridge. It was an awesome sight to behold. It was majestic! 

Just past the state line, you will find Durant, OK - this is home to the famous Choctaw Casino


We had debated stopping and dropping $20.00 each - but after a previous conversation with my daughter, she advised us that it probably would not be a good idea with my health and all since people are allowed to smoke inside of the casino areas. She also said there was a great deal of walking and my knee/foot cannot handle that either now. In fact, I tweaked it this morning so I will be reaching for the Icy Hot before we leave the hotel. 

It looks like they are building another casino or hotel area next to the famous existing Casino. As we sat at the stoplight (where I was able to snap the photo), I looked across the parking lot. In fact, we could see the parking lot from the highway before stopping at the light. It was packed. My thought was, no social distancing taking place there! Laughing out loud...and at the same time, feeling a bit apprehensive and glad we decided against going in. 

As we continued driving, we passed a truck hauling a large airboat. That was a neat sight to see. 

We saw a sign that said, ARMY AMMUNITION DEPOT. Wait, what? It was a government sign, and it was huge. I always found things like army tanks and caravans neat to see. This sign piqued my interest. I was thinking silently to myself though, why would they want to broadcast where this depot was? Guess that will be a conversation for a later time. We continued to drive...

There were many fields that had cows and horses in them.  There were plain white cows. There were Brahma Bulls. The horses were beautiful too. We saw solid colored ones and then ones that are called Painted. (I think that is what they are called anyway). 

In Oklahoma, we kept seeing signs along the highway about jams/jellies, Amish bread, tomatoes, and other things that are normally found in a Farmer's Market. Yes indeed, there was a large fruit stand in one of the small towns. It was already closed for the day when we passed through. Seeing these signs triggered a memory from my childhood when my family would travel from Amarillo to the Mineral Wells, Texas area to visit my great grandparents and other family members. We would always pass large signs along the highway that encouraged passer Byers to stop and shop. Yes, fresh fruit and vegetables. Fruit stands. 

We made it to our destination for the night. McAlester, Oklahoma. We decided to eat before we got to the hotel. I had written out a few of the local restaurants in the area and let my husband decided where we would eat. 

He chose, Marilyn's. Home Style Cookin'. 


The restaurant itself was quaint. There were antiques placed along the top of the wall throughout the restaurant. Old lunch boxes, old hand mixers, old tin cans - many of which triggered different memories we both had. There was even an old milk bottle about half full of glass marbles. (who sees those anymore?)

 







Marilyn's was home cooking at its best. I must say, the food was amazing. My husband chose a hamburger with a small chef salad and I chose a chicken breast with a side of okra. 




We were not disappointed. The food was fresh and delicious! The service was friendly, and the atmosphere was nice. We both gave Marilyn's 5 stars out of 5! If you are ever in the area, be sure to stop by and give them a try. You will not be disappointed. 

We are settled in now at the hotel. I am tired. The hub is already counting Zzzzz's. 

Until Day 2, I bid you good night...



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Thursday, October 8, 2020

Wordless Wednesday - Day 7

 Day 7 in the Ultimate Blog Challenge




The top photo is of my brother and my great granny Nellie Cordelia (Martin) Chenault. Yes, that's me sitting beside her. I was about five years old I suppose. 

The bottom photo is four generations. Me and my brother (being held by my mom), her mother, and then my mom's grandmother - Nellie Cordelia (Martin) Chenault. 

Walking with my ancestors makes my heart happy...

How many of you knew your great grandparents? How about your grandparents? 



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Remember When

Remember when things were simple, and life just seemed to BE.  As I am sitting here at my crafty desk working on the album for the Boutiqu...