For me to love myself more, first I
need to come to the place of acceptance within myself. I am only responsible for my
actions and not the ones from other people. I can't change what it is they do
so why let it bother me.
Secondly, I need to forgive
myself daily. In other words - quit allowing the offenses of others to
dictate my peace. If they want to hold on to all their grudges, their
discontents and their hurts created by me from years and years ago - that's on
them. I am NOT the same person I was 5, 10, 15, 20, 25 years ago. All I am
responsible for is myself. We are all adults. We make our own choices. With
those choices though are consequences...again, I only need to be responsible
for my own.
Third - love me daily.
don't wait around for others to love me. I'll be waiting forever. Sure, love is
nice when it comes from other people - but with that, also comes the chance of
pain, hurts, and betrayal. When I love myself daily - everything else falls
into place. If I am not happy, then others around me will feed off that
negative energy. What is that saying, "love is all you need"? I used
to think that it meant love from others but in reality - it is really LOVE for
yourself. Not in a proud or haughty manner either. Just
love...
I feel that our mindsets are an
especially important part of our life. The mind is an enormously powerful tool
when it comes to mind over matter. If I look at things that come up daily in a
different mindset - many times, I can smile - keep moving and not skip a beat.
BUT, if I allow the negativity, the voices of distraction and the would of,
could of, should of sit-in - I'm done. LOL
Again, the mindset..." just go
with the flow". Life is nothing but an adventure and we hold the map in
our hands by our choices, our words, our reactions, and our perseverance.
Remember though, we must learn to forgive and move on. Those grudges and ill wills
will get you in the long run.
Heart to Heart Soul Creations
H2sc2020
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